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YOU KNOW:
You need to pay the price.
Always work hard do your best and pray,
If you want to survive.
Friday, December 23, 2022
Friday, July 1, 2022
UNDERSTANDING OF SOMEONE BEAUTY
Does the understanding of someone’s beauty come from our own heart?
Everyone is beautiful in their own way, but we don’t find beauty in everyone. Once we open our hearts, we become non-judgemental and are able to see much beyond the barrier of body and behaviour.
Our perception of beauty is mainly learnt from what we have seen and heard. So when we see someone, we have preset criteria in mind to label them as beautiful or not. Once we release ourselves from judgement and, start understanding people, become empathetic and compassionate, we see and feel much beyond.
Be true, loving and understanding. How they look won't matter to you, and how they behave, you will understand it is their own experience of life. You will no longer see them as physical beings but as ones who are also touched by the divine.
Dr Bhawna Gautam
A good Husband
A good husband must fulfill a variety of roles; he must be like a father, a mother, and a sibling to his wife.
For she left her father, mother, brothers, sisters for him.
So she should find in him the gentleness of a father, the compassion of a mother, the leniency of a brother and the companionship of a sister.
“He who marries a woman should certainly respect her, because the wife of anyone of you is a means of your happiness, so the one who marries a woman should not spoil or disgrace her by disregarding her respectable rights.”
TIPS FOR RAISING MUSLIM CHILDREN
TIPS FOR RAISING MUSLIM CHILDREN
1. Praise your child, even if they get 4/10 in an exam, praise your child in front of others.
2. Every time you speak with your children, speak with respect, say “Jazakallahu khair ”, etc. Use ‘please' a lot and never swear.
3. He or she is just a child, don’t take away their playing time by treating them like adults. If you do this, they will rebel in life.
4. Assist your children in making decisions. Guide them by talking to them. If they want to go go for something, then help them plan.
5. Ask your child for his or her opinion. For example, if you are going to buy a car, ask them what colour they’d like the car to be. This develops the habit of consultancy in them.
6. Dedicate a corner of the house to your child and write the name of your child there – make it their little space. This will make them more confident of themselves.
7. Teach your child to follow you in salah. Lead them rather than merely instructing, it’s a more powerful way. Your child will remember what he/she sees you doing forever. Start instructing them to read salah at the age of 7.
8. Encourage your child to ask questions and try to answer each question. Otherwise, they will get the answer from the wrong source. Praise their questions at times.
9. Always fulfil your promises to your children. Do not make big promises which you cannot fulfil; this makes them develop a habit of making false promises. If you fail to fulfil any promise, explain.
10. Make dua for your children. Even if they have gone astray, pray for them.
11. Tell them you might fail once, but never lose hope. Teach them how they should react to a failure.
12. Apologize to your child if you have made a mistake, this teaches your child to repent to Allah. Don’t raise ifs and buts when you are wrong.
13. Praise their good deeds, give them gift and explain to them that this gift is for the good deeds that you did.
14. Make sure you train your children to read a portion of Quran daily, according to their capacity.
15. Tell your child repeatedly that you love them, tell them how gorgeous they are and how important they are to you, hug them, its a Sunnah to kiss your children ❤️
THE THOUGHTS YOU HAVE AND THE WORDS YOU USE WHEN YOU ARE TALKING TO YOURSELF ALL DETERMINE THE WAY YOU EXPERIENCE YOUR LIFE.
Hello, my dear friends,
The thoughts you have and the words you use when you are talking to yourself all determine the way you experience your life.
Your attitude in how you choose to be in the world and in your relationships governs how you experience your life and the world.
You always have the choice of feelings filled with light, love and joy. It is a choice you are free to make in any moment. If you choose to keep your attention on attitudes that express your Soul’s love, then you become a great magnet for more and more of the same energy.
The moment you put your attention on your Soul’s Love and the joy of its energy, you join with all the love of this frequency, this vibration of energy. You also join with all the other Soul’s on this earth and beyond who are focused on what you are focused on.
Be mindful always my friends.
LIFE IN THIS MOMENT
Live in this moment. It is what you do now that is important. This is what you can control and this is what creates your future”- Born a Healer
Your Life is a World of Relationships
If you are experiencing something in your life that you don’t like, it is so beneficial to acknowledge the experience.
You honor that experience for bringing you to this moment, and in acknowledge this moment, you learn from it and you then realize this moment was brought to you for a very good reason.
When you do accept the experience, you are also affirming to yourself that you have the power to change the experience.
DEAR SINGLES
DearSingles, Don't worry if you are single. When the right time comes Allah SWT will send your gift to you in unexpected ways. Allah SWT is saving you a perfect match. Insha'Allah. His plans for you is always for the best.
Being single doesn't mean you are weak; it means you are strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.
When people walk away from you...let them go... your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you... and it doesn't mean they are bad people...it just means that their part in your story is over.
Nothing is permanent in this world - not even our troubles. So always have hope.
“In life we all lose one thing or the other; might be a job, relationship etc. It's very normal. But don't grieve over your losses. Why? Because Allah always has a better replacement for them. So whenever you lose something, tell yourself, there's something better waiting for me.”
O'Allah, please make it easy for all our brothers and sisters who are finding it difficult to get married, and remove any burdens from them. Ameen
OFFERING A SACRIFICE IS ONE OF THE GREATEST DEEDS A MUSLIM CAN DO ON EID AL ADHA.
Offering a sacrifice is one of the greatest deeds a Muslim can do on Eid Al Adha. If you are financially capable, don't miss this grand opportunity where you can reap a tremendous reward.
If you are sacrificing an Udhiyyah (usually the father/husband of the house does this) then refrain from cutting nails and hair until eid day. This ruling applies only to the one who is going to offer the sacrifice, and not to the rest of his family,
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "He who has a sacrificial animal with him whom (he intends) to offer as sacrifice, and he enters the month of Dhu'I-Hijja, he should not get his hair cut or nails trimmed until he has sacrificed the animal." (Sahih Muslim)
May Allah accept all our efforts.
FIVE (5) BENEFITS OF PRAYING SALAT AL DUHA
5 Benefits of Praying Salat Al Duha
1. It fulfills sadaqah (charity) on every joint in your body.
"In the morning every single joint of yours must pay a sadaqah (charity). Every SubhanAllah is a sadaqah, every Alhamdulillah is a sadaqah, every La Ilaha Illa Allah is a sadaqah, every Allahu Akbar is a sadaqah, every commanding good is a sadaqah, and every forbidding evil is a sadaqah, and all this is accomplished through two rak'ats one can pray in Duha." [Muslim]
2. It is the prayer of the righteous.
"None is assiduous in keeping Salat al-Duha except one who is oft-repentent (awwab), and it is the prayer of the oft-repentent (wa hiya Salat al-Awwabin)." [Ibn Khuzaymah, sahih according to the conditions of Imam Muslim]
3. It was an advice from the Messenger ﷺ himself.
Abu Hurayrah: "My beloved (the Messenger) instructed me never to leave three things until I die: fasting three days of the month, praying Salat al-Witr before sleep, and praying the 2 rak`ats of Salat al-Duha." [Musnad Ahmad]
4. If performed after remembering Allah from the time of Fajr prayer, it's equivalent to the complete reward of Hajj & Umrah.
"Whoever prays the Fajr prayer then sits in his place of prayer remembering Allah until sunrise, then prays two rak`ats of Duha, shall be rewarded as if he had performed Hajj and Umrah, with a reward that is complete, complete, complete." [Tirmidhi, hasan]
(Note: This doesn't nullify the requirement to perform Hajj).
5. Making it a habit leads to forgiveness of one's sins.
"Whoever regularly prays the two rak'ats of Duha, his sins are forgiven even if they are as numerous as the foam of the sea." [Tirmidhi, Ahmad, Ibn Majah]
It's a simple 2 rak'ahs that's prayed any time after the sun rises until just before Dhuhr prayer. Make it a lifelong habit and encourage your family and friends to do so as well.
May Allah make us of those who benefit from what we learn.
Thursday, June 30, 2022
LIVING THE FIRST 10 DAYS OF ZHUL-HIJJAH WITH..... FASTING
Living The First 10 Days Of Zhul-Hijjah With..... Fasting
The Prophet (peace & blessings be upon him) said: Every (good) deed of the son of Adam would be multiplied, a good deed receiving a tenfold to seven hundredfold reward. Allah, the Exalted and Majestic, has said: Except for fasting, for it is done for Me and I will give a reward for it, for one abandons his passion and food for My sake. Muslim 1151
So don't forget to fast as much as you can for great reward!
BENEFITS OF GIVING CHARITY
Benefits of giving Charity
1) Allah multiplies and increases in reward
"The likeness of those who spend their wealth in the
way of Allah, is as the likeness of a grain (of corn); it grows seven ears, and each ear has a hundred grains. Allah gives manifold increase to whom He wills. And Allah is All-Sufficient for His creatures' needs, All-Knower. (al-Baqarah 2:261)
2) Allah will give in compensation to the one who spends.
The Prophet (pbuh said: "There is no day on which the people get up but two angels come down and one of them says: 'O Allah, give in compensation to the one who spends (in charity),' and the other says, 'O Allah, destroy the one who withholds.'" Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1374; Muslim, 1010.
3) Allah will spend on a person who give charity
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said: "Allah said: 'Spend, O son of Adam, and I shall spend on you."
Narrated by al-Bukhari, 5073; Muslim, 993.
ADVICE TO OUR SISTERS
Don't just marry someone because you find them beautiful for beauty fades away with age. Marry someone for their manners, for their character, for the way they speak or the way they deal with things. Marry someone for their deen, for their love for Allah. For their love for رسولﷺ.
Their looks will not raise your kids but their akhlaq will. So make sure you choose a person of Imaan.
