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YOU KNOW:
You need to pay the price.
Always work hard do your best and pray,
If you want to survive.
Friday, December 23, 2022
Friday, July 1, 2022
UNDERSTANDING OF SOMEONE BEAUTY
Does the understanding of someone’s beauty come from our own heart?
Everyone is beautiful in their own way, but we don’t find beauty in everyone. Once we open our hearts, we become non-judgemental and are able to see much beyond the barrier of body and behaviour.
Our perception of beauty is mainly learnt from what we have seen and heard. So when we see someone, we have preset criteria in mind to label them as beautiful or not. Once we release ourselves from judgement and, start understanding people, become empathetic and compassionate, we see and feel much beyond.
Be true, loving and understanding. How they look won't matter to you, and how they behave, you will understand it is their own experience of life. You will no longer see them as physical beings but as ones who are also touched by the divine.
Dr Bhawna Gautam
A good Husband
A good husband must fulfill a variety of roles; he must be like a father, a mother, and a sibling to his wife.
For she left her father, mother, brothers, sisters for him.
So she should find in him the gentleness of a father, the compassion of a mother, the leniency of a brother and the companionship of a sister.
“He who marries a woman should certainly respect her, because the wife of anyone of you is a means of your happiness, so the one who marries a woman should not spoil or disgrace her by disregarding her respectable rights.”
TIPS FOR RAISING MUSLIM CHILDREN
TIPS FOR RAISING MUSLIM CHILDREN
1. Praise your child, even if they get 4/10 in an exam, praise your child in front of others.
2. Every time you speak with your children, speak with respect, say “Jazakallahu khair ”, etc. Use ‘please' a lot and never swear.
3. He or she is just a child, don’t take away their playing time by treating them like adults. If you do this, they will rebel in life.
4. Assist your children in making decisions. Guide them by talking to them. If they want to go go for something, then help them plan.
5. Ask your child for his or her opinion. For example, if you are going to buy a car, ask them what colour they’d like the car to be. This develops the habit of consultancy in them.
6. Dedicate a corner of the house to your child and write the name of your child there – make it their little space. This will make them more confident of themselves.
7. Teach your child to follow you in salah. Lead them rather than merely instructing, it’s a more powerful way. Your child will remember what he/she sees you doing forever. Start instructing them to read salah at the age of 7.
8. Encourage your child to ask questions and try to answer each question. Otherwise, they will get the answer from the wrong source. Praise their questions at times.
9. Always fulfil your promises to your children. Do not make big promises which you cannot fulfil; this makes them develop a habit of making false promises. If you fail to fulfil any promise, explain.
10. Make dua for your children. Even if they have gone astray, pray for them.
11. Tell them you might fail once, but never lose hope. Teach them how they should react to a failure.
12. Apologize to your child if you have made a mistake, this teaches your child to repent to Allah. Don’t raise ifs and buts when you are wrong.
13. Praise their good deeds, give them gift and explain to them that this gift is for the good deeds that you did.
14. Make sure you train your children to read a portion of Quran daily, according to their capacity.
15. Tell your child repeatedly that you love them, tell them how gorgeous they are and how important they are to you, hug them, its a Sunnah to kiss your children ❤️
THE THOUGHTS YOU HAVE AND THE WORDS YOU USE WHEN YOU ARE TALKING TO YOURSELF ALL DETERMINE THE WAY YOU EXPERIENCE YOUR LIFE.
Hello, my dear friends,
The thoughts you have and the words you use when you are talking to yourself all determine the way you experience your life.
Your attitude in how you choose to be in the world and in your relationships governs how you experience your life and the world.
You always have the choice of feelings filled with light, love and joy. It is a choice you are free to make in any moment. If you choose to keep your attention on attitudes that express your Soul’s love, then you become a great magnet for more and more of the same energy.
The moment you put your attention on your Soul’s Love and the joy of its energy, you join with all the love of this frequency, this vibration of energy. You also join with all the other Soul’s on this earth and beyond who are focused on what you are focused on.
Be mindful always my friends.
LIFE IN THIS MOMENT
Live in this moment. It is what you do now that is important. This is what you can control and this is what creates your future”- Born a Healer
Your Life is a World of Relationships
If you are experiencing something in your life that you don’t like, it is so beneficial to acknowledge the experience.
You honor that experience for bringing you to this moment, and in acknowledge this moment, you learn from it and you then realize this moment was brought to you for a very good reason.
When you do accept the experience, you are also affirming to yourself that you have the power to change the experience.
DEAR SINGLES
DearSingles, Don't worry if you are single. When the right time comes Allah SWT will send your gift to you in unexpected ways. Allah SWT is saving you a perfect match. Insha'Allah. His plans for you is always for the best.
Being single doesn't mean you are weak; it means you are strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.
When people walk away from you...let them go... your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you... and it doesn't mean they are bad people...it just means that their part in your story is over.
Nothing is permanent in this world - not even our troubles. So always have hope.
“In life we all lose one thing or the other; might be a job, relationship etc. It's very normal. But don't grieve over your losses. Why? Because Allah always has a better replacement for them. So whenever you lose something, tell yourself, there's something better waiting for me.”
O'Allah, please make it easy for all our brothers and sisters who are finding it difficult to get married, and remove any burdens from them. Ameen
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